Family Haircuts

This is my family in about 1970. This is a photo of the haircuts I wrote about on page 30 of my memoir: I Can’t Miss the Encore. My mom’s sisters were professional beautitians. My mom was an artist but not when it came to haircuts and styles. Even our...

My Perception of the Cass Identity Model an LGBTQ Identity Development Process Charlie Bird introduced to me in his book, Expanding the Borders of Zion a Latter-day Saint Perspective on LGBTQ Inclusion

The 6 Stages of “Coming Out,” about the Cass Model of Identity Development My friend, Jan Skousen, sent me Charlie Bird’s book, Expanding the Borders of Zion a Latter-day Saint Perspective on LGBTQ Inclusion, for Christmas in 2022. I’m so glad she did....

Grandma Ida Aeschbacher and Grandpa Alfred Durtschi Marry

Right to left: Grandpa Alfred and Grandma Ida; children in birth order; Arnold; Isabel; Walter; and the obviously not identical twins, the red-headed freckled faced, Lucile and Lucy A much younger Durtschi Family Grandma Ida and Grandpa Alfred Marry Grandpa Edward and...

The Rock Story Unedited

I asked someone to take my photo on the top of Mt. Timp before I “hid” it in the crack where no one was and where no one would notice it, EXCEPT for my own brother!  Was it Pollyanna I had been searching for all those years, looking into the eyes of people...

Grandpa Alfred Durtschi

Edward Durtschi’s amazing home in Wimmis, Switzerland where Grandpa Alfred lived as a boy Grandpa Alfred Durtschi About 45 Kilometers away from my Grandma Ida, in Wimmis, Switzerland, lived my Great Grandpa Edward and Grandma Rosina Durtschi and their nine...

What Family Means

My Durtschi Family and My Second Home in Teton Valley, Idaho My second home was in Driggs, Idaho, in Teton Valley. The Tetons are MY mountains. My Durtschi cousins my mom’s family, are MY special cousins. When I was little and wasn’t very big, my Durtschi cousins and...

The Borg, Seven of Nine, and Me

In chapter 1 of I Can’t Miss the Encore (Encore), Becoming One with the Forest, on page 15, I wrote about how I relate to Seven of Nine. The Borg, a terrifying robotic species, was introduced in the Star Trek: Voyager series, the year-long Borg season. The Borg...